What I want to bring Who I want to be What I want to seed
Peace Courage Confidence Appreciation
Breathing in the potential Loading with curiosity I enter the day
What’s possible? What joy is brewing in the here and now? Plugging into the sensual of the body Feeling every cell vibrating Of Life Connecting to the Present To the Now Open, receptive, ready For this new day
How does it look like To receive a loving command How does it feel To deliver a loving command
Sometimes Your are not In a place Of receiving Sometimes You are In the clouds Of melancholy
What does that place ask from you? Is it being heard? What happens as you push? Does it feel better?
What happens when you pause? What do you notice? Maybe a pain Maybe a tension Who wants attention
What does it tell you? What does it need? What would happens if you Allowed it to be Just the way it is right now No pushing away No walking over it No pitying Just listening inside Gently Without force Nor demand Patiently For the child To come In its own timing Maybe it won’t come today Just be there Come back Gently present Loving her
Accept, to empower yourself Accept what is as the base From which You choose your response
Accept to stop loosing energy On what you can’t control On what was never meant to be In your control On what Life’s own higher intelligence Is offering
Accept to let go Accept change as a intrinsic part of Life Accept disruption and chaos As the creative forces That bring the new And make space For the unborn you are calling in
Accept uncertainty And lean in the knowing Of a benevolent Universe Calling out the best Of who you are Conspiring beyond your imagination For you
Accept that Timing And Form Are out of your control Accept that your role Is holding the Vision The Direction And consistently Take steps Towards it
However long However short It will take In whichever form From whichever source It will come
Bridge All the differences All the divergences Take a step Towards the other Wondering how it feels To be in their shoes To be in their skin To be in their situation
Be the bridge Leave your position aside for a moment Open to the being In front of you However outrageous However triggering However puzzling Their standpoint is to you
Bridge the gap Allow curiosity to guide you Allow your heart to open Give love, life, beauty A chance
Bridge with love Be the agent of change You are A beacon of light Agent of the shift Agent of reunion
The pain goes high, the pattern and dynamics at play repeat themselves to make me more and more clearly aware of what’s going on. The suffering increases for each instance. The discomfort is getting way out off my tolerance. It hurts so much. So I’m ready. Ready to learn, ready to meet, ready to love.
I made an appointment with my favorite reality reframer- a mentor coach – to help me midwifing and find a new perspective.
A new layer of my being is ready to be loved. An old story and belief is ready to be seen through new light. An old strategy is ready to be thanked for the service it has been earlier in my life. I’m ready to be let go of the old for a new story, a new reading, a reading that takes into account my growth and the resources I have today compared to where I was when the old strategy come in place.
It’s feels darker than anytime
Picture Pixabay – Illuvis
Although right now, in the midst of the emotional turmoil, it looks like a mess and really a bad place to be, I have the awareness that this is something good. That this is coming up powerfully because I’m ready to take care of this fragment of me, that has been forgotten and put into a dark room to protect me.
It hurts because I have outgrown this old strategy. It once helped, probably saved me, but it’s now far too small for me to continue where my love for Life guides me.
If you wonder why I’m speaking in so general terms, it’s just because the process is still ongoing and the clarity of what wants to transform isn’t here yet. I just have the clarity that this dramatical emotional turmoil that I would have judged earlier as a solid proof of my inadequacy and my inability of taking properly care of myself, that this is a sign of growth, a new aspect ready to be welcomed in love.
Touching the basic need of connection
The pattern playing out and that hurts these days is affecting my relationships and this affects me deeply as I so intensely feel my need and longing for nurturing loving connections. It goes in a spiral where I notice painfully how I retract from connections, seeing the dynamic repeating itself, with a feeling of being out of control, fearing to create more pain, more suffering, and above all fearing loosing the love of these people- some so dear to me.
As a gift in synchronicity with my needs, a friend drew my attention yesterday to a talk of Eckart Tolle who reminded me that suffering is the fuel for us to make the commitment to meet that which no longer serves us. Because as long as the discomfort is bearable, we avoid meeting the unknown and the pain. So life generously gives us exactly what we need for us to grow.
Picture: Pixabay – Glady
My purpose in writing this is to shine a light on these transformation processes we go through. To increase the understanding of these crisis. To awake your curiosity and compassion next time you find yourself in an emotional storm, where something seems unraveling and impossible to solve. To know that you are OK and that these moments are opportunities to meet aspects of yourself that are ready to be taken care of the person you have become.
I’m also sharing because this is a vulnerable place that we are taught to hide, concealed in shame, that need more light and courage to be exposed. So that we can learn from each other that we are good, that the messiness is not a sign of failure and unworthiness, but a part of a process from which more life, joy and freedom can emerge.
Please comment below, what arise in you after this reading? Insight? Questions? Something else?
With love and compassion.
PS: Here is the link if you feel curious about Eckart’s teaching:
Olivia Florian 